Connie Brittonis opening up about her decision toadopt.

While reading a question from a fan, Cohen, 52, asked if there was a “particular light bulb moment” where she realized that she was ready.

“I had no idea what I was even getting into,” Britton began.

“It wasn’t so much ‘I can do this’ as much as I knew that I wanted to be a mom,” the Emmy-nominated star continued. “And, in truth, both of my parents had passed away within three years and suddenly like I was like, ‘Oh no, my family is no more’ — I mean, I have a twin sister — but that was a big loss, losing my parents. And I wasn’t in a relationship that felt like it was going to be a marriage relationship and so I was like, ‘What am I waiting for?’ I know I want to adopt, I can do this!”

“But that was a little delusional, cause it turns out it’s a really hard thing to do,” Britton added. “But I would only encourage anybody to do it. You can do it!”

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Connie Britton

Back in November 2011, theFriday Night Lightsactress adopted her son, then 9 months, from Ethiopia after a three-year-long adoption process.

“I am thanking my lucky stars every day,” Brittontold PEOPLE exclusivelyat the time, before she detailed that the day she first held her son in her arms was something that she would never forget.

“It was such a wonderful moment of completion,” she said. “I thought I was going to collapse into a puddle of tears. I was just grinning from ear to ear.”

“My son is adopted from Ethiopia so I always say I can take very little credit, but he, from the beginning, just inherently has had such an open and curious heart and love of life,” she shared. “He’s very into learning and seeing what’s happening and seeing what people are doing. I just love that about him. And it immediately opens me up as well.”

source: people.com